Serving baby shower appetizers are the most common and convenient way to feed your guests. There are tons of possibilities when choosing which hors d'oeuvres to offer. Sweet, salty, cheesy, hot, cold...all kinds of options! And...guests love choices, so offer 4-6 different kinds of appetizers. (make sure to check out some great appetizer ideas under our recipes).
The baby shower appetizers can be made in replacement of a full meal that you might otherwise serve. Baby shower appetizers can be as complicated as baked spring rolls or as simple as rolled sandwiches cut into bite size pieces. Helpful Tips:1. Choose your Appetizers around the Shower Theme: For instance if you are having an Under the Sea Theme, you could get a goldfish glass bowl and place goldfish crackers in them and serve a shrimp dip with crackers.2. Presentation is Key: If available, match your tableware with your shower theme. If your theme does not have matching tableware, you can get really creative and purchase a solid tableware color and have round sticker labels personalized to stick onto the cups and the corner of the napkins. Also, instead of serving one big bowl of dip, you could use individual baby food jars and place dip in those for your guests. Another great idea for the food table is to use small toys ie: small plush baby rattles or stuffed animals. You can use them for prizes or the mom to be gets to keep them as gifts. 3. Offer Healthy Choices: Small sandwiches make great substitutions and can be whipped up in large quantities without too much work. Finding a cookie cutter to cut special shapes out of the bread for a cool presentation is an idea. You can fill your sandwiches with egg salad, tuna fish, or deli meats. Do not forget about simple appetizers such as deviled eggs, veggie trays or cubed fruit. 4. Pay Attention to the Beverages: If you are hosting a large group of people, having a variety of drinks available is best. While coffee and tea are usually standard, keep in mind that the mom to be shouldn’t be having caffeine so offering a punch would be a great idea not to mention a punch bowl would make a great centerpiece. Using a baby bath tub for a punch bowl is an idea too. Set Up A Fun Food Bar:
**Throwing a baby shower for a loved one will create cherished memories that last a lifetime, with the above hints, you should be able to reduce the amount of time you spend in the kitchen prepping the food and be able to focus on the rest of the shower**
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As with any type of special occasion, it is always a good idea for the host to put together a baby shower budget. It’s true that nobody likes to hear the b-word, but even on a budget, a host can throw a baby shower that all will remember. Sure it’s important that the guests have fun, but a baby shower is first and foremost about being together with the people who mean the most to the expectant mother.
Budgeting for a baby shower is one of the first considerations many hosts have to think about. It is also one of the most difficult to arrange. Your budget determines the whole event: right from the number of guests you are planning, up to the where you will be holding the party. By setting a budget, you will not find yourself bankrupted because you spent too much money. You can also make sure the party becomes successful without any financial difficulty on your part. When budgeting for a baby shower, you first have to estimate how many guests you are planning to have for the event. Will it be strictly for close friends and family, or will you be inviting neighbors and colleagues? Is the shower strictly for women? Once you have decided on the number of people, you can now set the budget. Another important consideration when setting a baby shower budget is the food. Of course, this will come after the number of guests has been finalized. If you find the budget for the shower a bit too expensive, you should either lower the number of the people you’ve invited or look for a co-host to help you finance the event. There are also ways on how you can save money, so your budget will be sufficient.
Here are several suggestions to help you lower your baby shower budget:
Benefits of co-hosting a shower:Co-hosting, or having several baby shower hosts instead of just one, is becoming a popular option. When a baby shower will be co-hosted by several people, generally they all will share the costs. Together as a group, the co-hosts decide who will cover the different expenses involved with the shower. Another option, but one that’s sometimes more difficult to control, is to pool the co-hosts’ money together and useit jointly. Each host contributes a mutually-agreed upon amount to the shower fund and the expenditures are deducted from that joint funding.Asking others to help fund a baby shower is something that must be handled with tact. It’s never a good idea to ask the mother-to-be or her partner to help with expenses nor is it appropriate to ask someone who is struggling financially. It’s always much easier when others who are close to the expectant mother volunteer their assistance, rather than having to ask for it. In these situations, the host should not feel bad about accepting money, if she needs it or anything else they’re offering. Besides money, there are other ways people can help. They can bring food and drinks (potlucks are still popular) or they can contribute their time rather than their money, all of which will be a tremendous help to the bridal shower host. Be sure to factor in other people’s help, whether financial or otherwise, when planning a baby shower budget.
When you decide to host a Baby Shower for both Men and Women, it is different than if you are hosting a traditional girls only shower. As with any celebration, keep your guests in mind as you choose everything from invites to games to the food.
Simple tips as you plan a Couples Shower:
Theme Suggestions for Couple Showers:
These are some ideas of Baby Shower Decorations that you could use. Use a few of them or use them all, depending on your theme, time, and budget:
Decorate an umbrella in the open position, with blue and pink streamers and hang them so that they hang over the sides. You can hang it from the ceiling near the gift table or chair where the mom (and dad) to be will be sitting. You can also decorate a rocking chair with streamers, bows, etc. also. Remember Simplicity. When it comes to baby shower decorating ideas, keeping it simple is key. Do not equate simple with cheap, poor quality, cheesy or tacky. Rather, simple and classy baby shower decorating ideas will add a sweet feel to the baby shower that will give your party a fun, intimate, and memorable mood. AND you will not have to break the bank to do it!
Baby shower etiquette is becoming more loose and relaxed than in the past, but there are still certain guidelines most people will expect to be followed.
Who Hosts the Baby Shower for the Mother? In the past, tradition called for someone completely outside the family of the expectant mother to host the baby shower. However, it is now considered acceptable for a mother or sister to hold the baby showerand send out invitations, etc. It is not considered good manners for the mother to throw her own baby shower. While the mother-to-be can certainly have a say in certain things, and the hostess will get the guest list from her, the party is for her so it shouldn't be given by her. Who is invited to the Baby Shower? Sometimes a mother will have more than one baby shower if people from a certain circle want to host a specific event for her; she may have a baby shower at work, and one at church. Sometimes the hostess will want a small gathering of a particular group of people. Other times the baby shower hostess will ask the mother-to-be for whatever other friends and family she wants to include in the event. Couple Showers are becoming increasingly more popular. There are many games that you can play that will include both the men and women (see games). Should a Mother Get a Baby Shower for her Second (or Third, or....) Baby? While this may not make Miss Manners happy, my emphatic answer is YES! Every baby is a blessing and should be celebrated as the unique arrival to the world that he or she is. Without going into specifics ofa baby shower for an experienced mother, think about what she will definitely need. Not only can she register for baby items she may not have received with the first baby, there are other items she'll be more in need of for a second or third time mother. Consider giving diapers in multiple sizes, baby wipes, and other perishables. Many mothers will also appreciate frozen meals ready to go since they will not only have a newborn infant to deal with, but also an older child to feed as well. Gifts, Registries, and Thank You Notes Gifts should be opened at the baby shower during the party so guests can see the mother appreciate the gift and other attendees can see what was given. The exception to this rule is, if the mother is given money directly, a greeting card can be mailed directly to their house. Gift cards are acceptable to open at a baby shower but are not passed around the room, nor is the amount disclosed to the other guests. Baby registries are very useful ways for friends of the expectant parents to know what baby items are needed and themes that are desired. While it may have been considered bad etiquette to include gift registry information in the baby shower invitation in past decades, now it is usually considered helpful to do so. Regardless of the times, thank you notes never go out of style. After the baby shower a mother-to-be should send thank you notes to her guests within about a month. Sometimes the hostess can have guests pre-address envelopes for the mother, and give them to her already stamped and ready to go to make this easier for her. The baby shower hostess should also make sure that someone is in charge of writing down what the mother received and who gave it, in case the cards get separated from the packages.
Guess the Date:
Set up a large grid ahead of time with the dates of the month when baby is due. You can have guests write their name on the date when they think the baby will be born. For a tie breaker, you can have the guests also write the time and weight of the baby. The host or hostess can be responsible for sending a prize to the winner after the baby comes. Wet Diaper: Break up into groups of 3-4. Each group gets a disposable newborn diaper, large pitcher of water, and a measuring cup. Each group predicts how much water they think the diaper will hold without the water leaking out. Write down the guess before you start. The group that comes closest wins a prize. Bobbing for Nipples: Buy several packages of baby bottle nipples and put them into a baby bath tub full of water, and play just like bobbing for apples. Pregnant Twister: Have a Twister game – 2 fanny packs, 2 10lb weights, and 2 pillows. Place the weights in the fanny packs and strap the fanny pack around the pillow around the stomach of the guest. Guests will compete one on one against each other until they lose. The winners of each round will advance to the next level – The last one standing is the winner!! Diaper Poker: (Diaper Blackjack) Each Person brings their own bag of diapers (any size) for their ante into the game. The diaper ante can equal any amount the hostess desires. (1 bag = $100 Dollars) Winner collects a prize Baby Stroller Race: Set up a course outside using a hose, yard decorations, trees, etc. that a stroller can navigate around. Make the course as long or short with curves, or turns. Time your guests as they navigate the course with the baby doll in the stroller, deducting points for going off course, losing control, or throwing the baby doll from the stroller. To make it more interesting, you can schedule a pit stop half way through the course where they have to stop and feed & burp the baby, change the diaper or rock the baby to sleep. The winner is the one who completes the course with the quickest time w/the baby doll still in the stroller. Make a Baby: Give Guests play dough and toothpicks and have them create a baby using only these 2 items. Time guests for five minutes (if a couples shower – blindfold the couples and make them work together to create the baby) Hostess picks the winning baby. Babies First Savings Fund: Note on the invitation about a raffle for a big prize, BRING YOUR MONEY! Each person at the shower can buy one raffle ticket for a $1 or ten for $5. At the end, a winner wins a nice prize like a gift certificate for dinner or Wal-Mart. Sometimes if you have extra prizes you can raffle prizes left over. The money collected starts the baby's 1st bank account. OR… When you mail out your invitations, note on the bottom that the first guest to show up at the shower will receive a prize (who don’t like a free gift?) Add whoever is last will have to empty all their pocket change into the babies piggy bank (which is provided by the hostess) this will lead to everyone to do the same just because it is for the baby. Pass the Prize: Here is a game that is a lot of fun. Have everyone stand in a circle. Make the list up before everyone arrives. It would go like this: Pass to a person with red hair. Pass to person with glasses. Pass to the person across from you. Count 3 people to left and pass to that person. Pass to person who's not wearing socks, etc. etc. You can make the list as detailed as you want and with whatever directions you want to use. Give a gift to a person and then start going down the list. Whoever has the gift when you get to the end of the list wins the prize. If it is a big group you can start the game with 2 gifts to 2 different people. Baby's Name Game: Pass out paper and pens to each guest. Have them write the baby's name (if unknown, the mom-to-be's name works well) down the edge of the paper. On go, have them look through their purse and find items beginning with each letter. The one who gets them all the quickest wins. For more fun, have the winner go through her list and show everyone what she had. Baby's Price is Right: This is so much more fun than the tray game. You purchase all of the baby items you want to get and then set them on a tray. Ask everyone to guess the prices of each item. When they are done with that they add up the total. Whoever is closest to the correct total amount wins!!! Clothes Line Game: Get a bundle of clothes in a laundry basket, a clothes line and clothes pins. You have two people hold each end of the clothes line, then you have a guest hang as many clothes as they can in 30 seconds (this is the hard part) while talking on the phone and holding a baby doll Advice for Years Ahead: Have every one draw a number from a bowl (as many numbers as there are guests--mom and hostess too starting with 0 for the birth day). The number represents the future age of the baby. Give every one a pieceof pretty paper and a matching envelope and have them write a letter to the baby at that age. No one is allowed to read it. They should be sealed and given to the mom to open on future birthdays. Big Belly Race: This is an excellent couples or co-ed shower idea!! Blow up some balloons, have all the men in the room (or women) put one under their shirts, and then have a "RACE" to see which one of them can tie their shoes the fastest!! This is truly FUNNY and the mom-to-be will absolutely love watching them. (Be careful though, all the laughing might put her into labor.) Baby Pictionary: This game is based upon the original Pictionary board game. Before the shower, place words relating to baby activities and items on small cards. (ex: Changing a diaper, giving birth, feeding time) At the shower, create teams and give each one a pad of paper and pencil. Let one member of the team see a card, then tell them to draw the word or phrase for their partners to guess. Use a timer or just play until someone guesses. When the time is up, the teams total up the number of words they have guessed correctly and the one who has the most wins a prize.
Are you attending a Baby Shower and unsure what to bring the mom to be for a gift?? In the virtual world that we live in today, most expectant mothers will register at places such as Target, Babies R Us, Wal-Mart, Buy Buy Baby, and Pottery Barn Kids. It is very easy to access gift registries right from your home with a few clicks of a button. If the expectant mother hasn’t registered anywhere than let us help you out with some great gift ideas...
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Here are some baby shower invitation ideas that are designed around a theme for the party. The baby shower traditionally includes fun, games, and food, but the more meaningful consideration is to support the expectant mother and father with an abundance of good wishes and helpful suggestions.
Many baby showers focus on one or two areas of enjoyment that make the shower a party, but the best baby shower invitation ideas also create cherished memories as a gift that lasts for years after the celebration. Wording is very important when you are writing an invitation. Make sure you have the following:
Great ideas that you can use for the wording on your invitations:
Q: Am I more likely to get pregnant if my husband wears boxers or briefs?
A: You'll have an even better chance if he doesn't wear anything at all. Q:I'm two months pregnant now. When will my baby move? A:With any luck, right after he finishes college. Q:When is the best time to get an epidural? A:Right after you find out you're pregnant. Q:Is there any reason I have to be in the delivery room while my wife is in labor? A:Not unless the word "alimony" means anything to you. Q:How will I know if my vomiting is morning sickness or the flu? A:If it's the flu, you'll get better. Q:The more pregnant I get, the more often strangers smile at me. Why? A:Because you're fatter than they are. Q:My childbirth instructor says it is not pain I'll feel during labor, but pressure. Is she right? A:Yes, in the same way that a tornado might be called an air current. Q:How does one sanitize nipples? A:Bathe daily and wear a clean bra. It beats boiling them in a saucepan. Q:What are night terrors? A:Frightening episodes in which the new mother dreams she's pregnant again. Q:What happens to disposable diapers after they're thrown away? A:They are stored in a silo in the Midwest, in the event of global chemical warfare. Q:Why does the doctor spank a Baby after their born? A:To knock the penis off the smart ones.
What Baby Shower is complete without a treasured Keepsake?
Our banners make the best keepsakes!! Instead of the traditional guest sign in book, have your guests sign the banner with their name and a wish for the baby. When the shower is through, present the banner to the expectant mom so she can take it to the hospital. Afterwards, she can display it in the baby’s room. The banner can then be rolled up and tucked safely away for a very personal keepsake. You can also create a “baby board” that your guests can create by making guesses as to the sex of the baby, weight, length, date of birth, and even the baby name. Once the baby is born, the guest that guesses the closest wins. Guests can pay $1.00 per guess and have the money go into the baby’s 1st piggy bank. Having someone with a digital camera designated just to take pictures of the guests and the shower and then put together a small 5x7 or 8x8 scrapbook for the mom as a reminder of the shower is another idea. Local Craft/Scrapbook stores carry such a wide variety of scrapbook papers and stickers that an album of the shower is guaranteed to be treasured. The scrapbook albums generally come with white page inserts. Ask your guests to take a few minutes and put a special message on the paper, snap a picture of them and when your photos are developed, place the picture on the page with the message.
When a new baby is on the way, the parents are so overwhelmed in getting all the “essentials” that the baby is going to need (diapers, lotions, wipes, blankets, etc) that they don’t think about building a library for their baby. Reading is an important life long skill. You should begin reading books to your child from the moment you find out you are pregnant. Reading aloud is the biggest key to giving a child the basics to become a strong and competent reader years down the line! Starting a baby’s first library is becoming increasingly popular at Baby Showers. All you need to do when you decide on the invitation write a cute poem to let your guests know that you would like them to bring a book to start the baby’s library. Located below are a few examples of what you can put on an invitation or even write it inside the book for the baby: With friends and food it'll be lots of fun If everyone brought a book it sure would be swell We'll try to fill up the wishing well Baby (last name) can sit down with mom and take a look Or hop in Dad's lap and open a book He will become very smart, if my advice you do heed If we begin early, he will soon love to read One final reminder or call it a plea The theme of the shower is "Under the Sea" A card is nice, its sentiment sweet, But a book will keep baby on her feet. For years to come, baby will read Longing for stories will never be a need. A shelf full of wisdom for all to give, For baby to keep as long as she shall live. Filling the shelf should not be hard, If you would please sign a book instead of a card. Although cards are nice They’re read once or twice Maybe three or four at best A book is a treasure Forever and Forever Instead of a card To be put aside Please give the little baby A book with your name inside It will be read before bed each night A card is nice, it is sentiment sweet But a book will keep baby on his/her feet For years to come, baby will read Longing for stories will never be a need A shelf full of wisdom for all to give For baby to keep as long as he/she shall live Filling the shelf should not be hard If you would please sign a book and not a card
When you start to plan your menu for the food that you will be serving, you should keep a few things in mind:
1. How many guests will be attending? If you are having more than 10 guests attending, it would be recommended NOT to serve an entire meal. You would be less stressed if you were to serve finger foods, beverages, and appetizers. If you have less than 10 guests, you could do a sit down meal, but keep it easy!! 2. What time of day is your shower? For morning or lunch showers, a menu consisting of fruits, yogurts, muffins, and quiches would be simple but elegant. A later shower menu could be comprised of finger sandwiches, vegetable tray, dips, and cupcakes. If you are doing an evening shower, you can serve up some casseroles, veggies, cheese and sausage tray, and a cake. 3. Do you have a theme for your shower? There are some really fun foods out there to go along with almost any theme – if you are doing a cowboy theme, serve up some hot dogs and barbeque beans with potato chips. For a moon & star theme, you can serve ham and turkey sandwiches cut out with a star cookie cutter, and serve an “angel food cake”. If you make food to match your Baby Shower Theme you will certainly “WOW” your guests with the extra touch you put on the shower. 4. Allow yourself time for preparation More than likely, time is not something you have a lot of. So keep the menu simple. Simple does not have to mean boring!! Just find recipes that are easy and fast to prepare. Click on the baby block with the letter R above and you will find a Recipe link for some really easy “Big Dot Family” Recipes that will assist you in preparing for your celebration. 5. Is anyone going to be helping you? Assigning several other friends or family members of the expectant mother to prepare food will save you A LOT of time and work. As the hostess, you have so many other things to get ready for. Having a few people each bringing one or two baby shower menu items will save you a lot of work and stress for you. In addition, you won't have to be running around the day of the shower making sure that the food is ready. You can take comfort in the fact that the party food is taken care of and you can focus on the other last minute details.
As you begin to prepare for baby’s arrival, don’t forget about the nursery! Before you start buying for the baby, take a “stroll” through our list and write down any items that you will need. With today’s “virtual” world that we live in, you can register right from home in your bathrobe.
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It’s quite overwhelming when you are going to organize a baby shower, there’s usually so much to do and so little time to do it in, plus you just never know if the “bundle of joy” is going to wait to make his/her appearance. Normally a baby shower is planned 1-2 months prior to the celebration. Let’s be practical though… Last minute showers seem to be the sign of the times. We are so busy with everyday activities that a shower can totally slip our minds. Even those last minute showers can be pulled off without a “hitch” IF you are organized. Pick a theme: Choose a fun theme, even though a baby shower has its own built in theme, be adventurous and plan something spectacular that everyone will remember. Let your creativity flow…If mom to be is an“outside girl” plan a shower around a “Cowboy theme”. Invites: Get a list from the mom to be of whom she would like at her shower. Send invitations out approximately one month before the event. Depending on your menu, you may want to include a RSVP date. Games: Don’t feel obligated to come up with games just to “pass the time away”. Shower guests should feel welcome to chat and mingle with other guests and the mom to be. Depending on your time frame, choose 2-3 games that all the guests will enjoy. Make sure that you don’t purchase any that will offend the mom to be or the guests. Favors: Most hostesses will purchase a favor that their guests can take home with them as a keepsake from the shower. For instance: lip balm, body butter, a candy bar with a personalized wrapper, Favors are also used for prizes for the games you play. These favors can be a little more expensive since you are purchasing just a few. Decorations: You will want to show off a certain theme; therefore you will need to coordinate your decorations with that theme. Purchase banners, tableware, and balloons to match!
Remember the word GIGGLE when planning your baby shower... G = Guest List: Be sure to invite all of the mom to be’s friends, co-workers, and family – so you do not leave anyone out, ask the mom to be to provide you with a list of names. I = Invitations: Invitations should be sent out at least one month in advance. Know your theme and order your invitations around that theme – then coordinate your favors, tableware, and banner around the same theme. G = Games: There are so many different games that you can play at your shower. You should take into consideration the number of guests, the location, and the time frame of the shower when determining how many games to play. For those that are invited that cannot attend, you can include them by using scratch off games and sending them a card that they can scratch off too. It will make them feel like they are still part of the shower!! G= Great Food: Don’t spend too much time “stewing” over what to serve your guests. If you are hosting the shower in your home, go with simple finger foods like veggie & fruit trays, fresh fruit yogurt bar, mashed potato bar, mini pizza’s, tortilla wraps, mini sandwiches. If you are having an elegant sit down meal, the caterer will usually plan a meal around your theme. No matter what type of food you decide to serve, make sure there is enough of it- you don’t want to run out. L = Location: Make sure that you are holding the shower in an area large enough to accommodate all the guests you have invited. You will $ave money in your budget by hosting it at your home versus a banquet hall. If you decide to host it at an outside venue, call ahead to make your reservations and make sure you inquire about decorating – some venues have rules that won’t allow you to decorate. Also make sure that they will be serving foods that the mommy to be and your guests will enjoy. E = Expectant Mom: The shower is in celebration for the mother and her new baby. You want to keep her as comfortable as you can throughout the shower. Make sure that you have a comfortable chair that she can sit in and be relaxed during the event. If the shower is not a surprise, it’s a good idea to talk with the expectant mom and find out what she is going to be feeling like doing as far as games and food.
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Below are some Easy Recipe’s that you can copy for your Baby Shower that were submitted by our own Big Dot Family Fanatics.
Fruit Salsa 2 medium Granny Smith Apples 2 kiwis, peeled and diced 1 pear, chopped 1 cup strawberries or raspberries 2 tbsp brown sugar 2 tbsp apple jelly 2 tbsp ginger ale Dipping crackers or chips Clean and peel fruit. Dice apples, kiwis, pear and berries and spoon into mixing bowl. In a separate bowl, mix brown sugar, jelly and ginger ale. Pour over the fruit. Chill before serving with cinnamon tortilla chips, cinnamon graham sticks or cinnamon Wheat thins. Chicken Croissants 2 dozen croissants 2 lbs chicken, cooked and diced 1 package cream cheese ¼ c. mayo 1 c grated cheddar cheese 2 green onion stalks, sliced 1 celery stalk, diced 1 can black olives ½ package roasted sliced almonds Mix Cream cheese, mayonnaise in mixer. Blend until creamy add the rest of the ingredients. Mix well and stuff into the croissants. Abstinence on the Beach Punch 1 – 12 oz frozen concentrated grapefruit juice 1 -12 oz frozen cranberry juice concentrate ¼ c. coconut milk 9 c water Combine grapefruit, cranberry and water. Put about 1 cup of juice and coconut milk in blender. Blend until smooth and pour back into pitcher. Chill at least 2 hours – serve in punch bowl.
Who is a Sprinkle Baby Shower for?
The baby sprinkle can be used for any children born after the first child. It can also be used for a new mom that already has all of the big items and would like a smaller celebration. What is a Sprinkle? A sprinkle is a smaller scale baby shower in which guests "sprinkle" the new mom with the little necessities she needs for a new baby. It is not a full blown shower, but just a light sprinkling of gifts. This has been gaining popularity over the years and is becoming a new trend. How did it come about? Baby showers first came about as a way for friends and family to gather in a celebration to help a new mom prepare for the baby. With a first child, a new mom needs to stock up on lots of baby supplies, including the big items (the car seat, stroller, high chair, crib, etc.). It used to be that baby showers were only held for the first child. Why did it come about? The parents already purchased the big items the first time around so they don't need as much for the next child. The baby sprinkle started as an idea to celebrate all children, since they are all a gift. It allows for a smaller baby shower, since the mom-to-be would need less this time around. This is not to say you cannot have a full baby shower for baby #2 and beyond. If your circumstances require the need for a full baby shower, by all means go for it. Invitation Ideas for a “Sprinkle” Shower: Pins, Diapers, Bottles Galore Big (sister/brother) has plenty to share This is only a sprinkle to show that we care Please join us to celebrate before baby is due We still do not know if it will be pink or blue Baby smiles and giggles galore _____ and _____ are having one more Big Sister _______ has plenty to share This is only a "sprinkle" to show that we care Please join us to celebrate before Baby is due They've got lots of pink, so think plenty of blue! (if its a boy!)
Baby Showers for twins can be double or triple the fun, and so can’t the expense of throwing one.
“Two” of the most popular themes for multiples are Noah’s Ark (two by two) or the Peas in a Pod. “Peas in a Pod” is versatile enough that you can use it for twins, triplets, or more... Just changing the number will turn this theme into whatever you desire. In turn, finding party supplies to coordinate is a “Peas” of cake. We have everything you need from the invitations; games, favors, centerpiece, and banner to the tableware that you will need to successfully throw a “Two-riffic” shower. When Decorating for a Twins Baby Shower – DOUBLE…DOUBLE...DOUBLE!! You can double up on the streamers, balloons and banners so there are 2 of everything – Cute decorations that you can use are: double mint gum, Twix candy bars, Double Stuff Oreos. If there’s one thing moms of multiples just can’t seem to get enough of, it’s the diapers. Part of your shower can be a “diaper drive”. Recommend that your guests bring an assortment of sizes including preemie/newborn up to 12 months. Designate a few guests to bring items such as diaper wipes, lotions, bath soap and baby shampoo.
The goal of a baby shower is for the mom to be to have the support of her closest friends and family. Keep her interests in mind when planning her shower. Plan ahead: Get your invitations out as early as possible. Make all the guests feel comfortable. Great each guest as she enters and make the appropriate introductions. Provide name tags so that everybody can identify the other guests as they might not know each other. A great “icebreaker” game to start the shower out with is our “My Water Broke” game. Freeze the babies in the ice cube trays the night before and when all your guests arrive, hand them an ice cube and let their imagination run wild with how they are going to get their baby to melt. The winner is the one whose baby is “born” first. Warning: This game creates serious laughter!! Choose a theme that fits the shower’s personality. The theme can be carried out with the invitations, games, shower favors and menu. Consider useful decorations, and centerpieces that can be given to the mother after the shower. Instead of having a “traditional” guestbook, order one of our banners and have your guests all sign the banner, the mom to be can then hang the banner up at the hospital as well as the baby’s room at home. Purchase shower games where the guests will be able to interact with each other. Be sure to have enough shower favors on hand – a few extra is good in case you have last minute guests show up. When it’s time for the gift opening, have the mom to be sitting in a comfortable chair and bring the gifts to her. Have someone designated to keep track which guest gave her what gift. You could hand guests the envelopes to the thank you cards so they can fill in their mailing address. Get the shower going on time, you will be surprised at how long it can take to eat, play games, open gifts and eat cake. Walk each guest to the door and thank them again for coming to the shower. It makes them each feel extra special for attending.
With families and friends living apart, Virtual Showers are becoming more and more popular. If it’s impossible to have loved ones attend the Baby Shower, why not consider hosting a Virtual Shower? Does it sound difficult? It’s not!! It’s simply an “online gathering” for the expecting parents. Virtual Showers are great for the military families that can’t all be at the same place at the same time.
A Virtual Shower will have the expectant parents feel loved and supported during this exciting transition time of their lives. It will allow your guests who cannot attend to still be involved and share in this special day, even from afar. All the traditional games and other elements can still be included in a virtual way. Invitations can be sent out for a Virtual Shower in the same way as if you were hosting a regular shower. Make sure you include how your Virtual Shower is going to work and where the expectant parents are registered. If you are going to be setting up an online Baby Shower, make sure you give instructions with your invitation as to how your guests will sign up. < Setting Up an Online Shower can be done either by inviting everyone to one chat room or you can find websites set up strictly to accommodate Virtual Showers, with these there is usually a small fee to get started, but the majority of these sites have a live chat room, guest book registry, photo albums and even games. Giving Gifts for a Virtual Shower will be a little different than the standard showers. If the expectant parents have registered at online stores, you should have the gift shipped direct to them (if you are not attending) when it comes to them opening their gift, a webcam for those not in attendance would make them feel as if they are still part of the shower. If a webcam is not an option, have someone take photographs of the mom opening her gift and include that picture in the thank you. Playing Games at a Virtual Shower can be adjusted to include everyone. Send scratch off cards (Baby Lotto, Who’s got Milk, Baby Scratch Off, Who Smells the Stinky Doo?) with the invitations and the day of the shower, everyone can take turns scratching their ticket off. The winners of the games could receive a gift card to a restaurant or retail store.
What is a Wishing Well?
Remember a time in your life when wishes were not just about money?? Your wishes were built around your hopes and dreams.. How many times have you said to yourself: I wish for warmer weather or I wish for great health and peace? Wishing Wells were originally used for collecting money. However, there are alternatives to those throwing a Baby Shower that don’t want to have their guests feel pressured into giving money:
Here are some examples that you can use on your invitations for a Wishing Well Shower... With friends and food it will be lots of fun If everyone brought a book it sure would be swell We'll try to fill up the wishing well Baby (last name) can sit down with mom and take a look Or hop in Dad's lap and open a book He will become very smart, if my advice you do heed If we begin early, he'll soon love to read One final reminder or call it a plea The theme of the shower is Under the Sea A tisket, a tasket, something small for baby's basket! From the top of his head, to the tip of his toes, baby products are needed, every mom knows. Shampoo and booties and for in between, wet-wipes and q-tips, to keep baby clean. If you could provide an item like these, Our Mom-to-be and baby sure would be pleased. Diapers, Diapers, Diapers, galore, we have some, but need some more, If you could pitch in to help with these, Mommy and baby sure would be pleased. With your donation, your name please do not tell, it is just a little contribution to our wishing well.
There are many types of baby showers used that can be customized to specific needs and situations.
Baby Sprinkle: This shower is more of a “sprinkle” of gifts rather than a full blown shower. The sprinkle is most often used for a second or third baby to help the mom stock up on the needed supplies. Mommy Shower: This is a girls only party that is intended to “pamper” the new mom. This shower is focused more towards getting the mom prepared for the stress and demands of motherhood. It’s usually attended by a close group of friends. Couples Shower: These are an increasing new popular trend being seen. With this shower, both the moms and dads are invited to attend. Keeping things on a simpler scale often works better if the men are going to be involved. Keep the activities men orientated (ex: bottoms up game). Adoption Baby Shower: The adoption baby shower is a rewarding end to the very long road of awaiting their child. Any theme is suitable for an adoption shower. For a game, you can make up your own trivia game, based on the baby’s adoption information – specifics about the country – culture – etc. Decorate your shower to represent the area of the world the baby is coming from. Grandma Baby Shower: This shower is usually the new grandma’s close friends getting together and “showering” grandma with gifts that she may need when the baby comes to visit. Office Baby Shower: An office Baby Shower is usually thrown during the lunch hour or after work in a conference room. Since it is held at work, games are usually quick (baby lotto, scratch off games). Make sure that you do invite the dad if it’s being held at moms work. New Baby Shower (Sip and See): This shower is held after the baby is born and is generally treated like an open house where you would invite guests to come over during a certain time and see the baby and the siblings. Having a cake with punch is all you would really need to serve as people come and go. Have a small favor that they can take home with them to remind them of the special event. For easy decorations, a Banner, some streamers and balloons is generally all that is needed.
Yoga is a Sanskrit word meaning yoke or connection. Yoga connects your body, mind, and spirit. Yoga can connect you to your baby too! The practice of yoga gives you the opportunity to create a world (your body) for your baby that is healthy and peaceful.
Yoga is increasing in popularity. Yoga coordinates movement, breath, and awareness. It addresses health and wellness on several levels: physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual. Because of the manybenefits and the pleasure derived from its practice, the art of yoga is becoming increasingly accepted everywhere as part of self-care during pregnancy and preparation for childbirth and motherhood. Yoga holds a number of benefits both before and during pregnancy; however these practices call for modifications in order to accommodate the growing baby and to protect the placenta. As with any exercise regime, it is recommended to check with your physician first. The benefits of practicing yoga during pregnancy:
Yoga Tips:
The food that you eat, the oxygen that you breathe, and your state of mind are all transmitted to your baby. The stress you feel is the stress that your baby feels. Yoga has developed over thousand of years to help people obtain optimal physical health and a relaxed and peaceful state.
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